Mindful Life Coaching for Personal Growth
One-on-One Coaching to Help You Grow, Connect, and Live Mindfully
Learning and Growing Being Present Connecting with others Finding calm Simplifying life
Feeling stuck or out of balance?
Discover new ways to feel more aware, centered, and purposeful as you grow into your best self.
At Life Coach For You, you’ll find a safe, supportive space to explore what’s possible and move forward with clarity and confidence.
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What can I explore with my coach?
During coaching sessions, we explore your challenges and various ways to help you reach your goals.
The topics we discuss can be wide ranging. A sample of topics and techniques are reflected below, but what we may cover depends on your unique journey.
Paying attention to my needs
Meditation and Mindfulness
Discover how to slow down and reconnect with yourself. Through simple mindfulness and meditation practices, you’ll learn to focus your attention, quiet the noise, and cultivate a sense of presence and inner peace that carries into daily life.
– Carl Jung
Health and Wellbeing
Find balance in both body and mind. Together we’ll look at practical ways to manage stress, improve sleep, and build habits that support your energy and mood. Learn to listen to what your body needs so you can feel calm, grounded, and ready to grow.
“Take care of your body. It’s the only place you have to live”
— Jim Rohn
Emotions and Feelings
Understand your emotions rather than being overwhelmed by them. We’ll explore what triggers certain feelings, how to respond with awareness, and how to turn emotional insight into personal growth. This is about knowing yourself and feeling more at ease within.
“Emotions are like waves; we can ‘t stop them from coming, but we can choose which one to surf.”
– Unknown
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Planning and Interacting with others and the world
Communication
Learn to speak clearly and listen deeply. Together we’ll work on tools for honest conversations, setting boundaries with kindness, and communicating in ways that strengthen connection rather than create conflict. It’s about expressing yourself with confidence and care.
“All activities should be done with the intention of communicating. This is a practical suggestion: all activities should be done with the intention of speaking so that another person can hear you, rather than using words that cause the barriers to go up and the ears to close.”
– Pema Chödrön
Organising
Bring order and flow to your daily life. Whether it’s time, priorities, or big-picture planning, you’ll learn how to simplify, create balance, and make space for what really matters. Less chaos, more clarity and purpose.
“A man without a goal is like a ship without a rudder”
[directionless and vulnerable to the tides]
— Thomas Carlyle
Relationships
Build healthier, more fulfilling relationships — with partners, family, friends, or colleagues. We’ll explore how to foster understanding, compassion, and shared direction so your connections support you, not drain you.
“Values are like fingerprints. Nobody’s are the same,
but you leave them all over everything you do”
— Unknown
How to get Started
Discover
Step 1
Complete the application form online and we will contact you to set up a meeting for your free introductory session.
Decide
Step 2
Take Action
Step 3
We agree to take action and then our coaching journey begins.
A confidentiality and written agreement is
provided and signed by the client and coach and returned before our next session.
Choose your next step
Client Reviews
Garth really helped me devise clear goals in a straightforward and positive manner and celebrated my wins and progression throughout the journey. He also helped me deal with tough situations and difficult circumstances not only in the moment but a whole rework of how to approach things better in the future. He is a great life coach!
Danielle Joolay
Life is a complex and humbling journey. Garth guided me to such clarity, drive and sense of purpose that I was able to become an entirely better person than I thought I could be. Garth is extraordinarily generous, sensitive, and keenly intuitive. He gave me tools to navigate my journey, and empowered me to craft my own, and in our brief time together he became more than a mentor to me – he became a friend. Having been skeptical (yet curious) when I started my coaching journey, I can now comfortably and enthusiastically recommend Garth to everyone with the ambition to be a better, more confident version of themselves. It is a joy to experience.
Sebastian Pooler
My coaching experience with Garth was transformative. I found him to be highly sensitive to and observant of my needs, in no small part because he is an incredibly good listener. He has the rare ability to really see another person, listen to them, and meet them where they are. I learned a lot about the simple consistency needed to change oneself through the exercises he took me through, and he managed to always share just the right TED Talk to help me with my current situation. I wouldn’t change anything about the process, and now the onus lies on me to continue the work – for which I now have a handful of great resources to guide me.
Kirstin Conradie
I could never express myself about my passion or purpose in life – and at 51, I met this amazing person (my life coach – Garth) and he brings out a whole lot of stuff I have known for a long time and puts it into context to show me who I am and what I do to enrich the lives of others as well as mine. I think the most remarkable of all, is the fact that he was able to articulate what I did and translate it into meaningful words / phrases and activities to show me where I am and where I need to grow.” “Garth’s techniques and approach to his activities (such as planting avocado pits) were breath-taking.” “We need more people like Garth – Life Coaches can make touch work look easy. Sometime people just need a little push in another direction that can give them a second breath. I have more than a second breath now – my conversation with people makes so much sense and people are in love with my story
Pieter Titus
My work with Garth was a valuable part of my sabbatical process. He served as a mirror to me as we discussed what I consider important in my life. With that in mind we developed tools together that I today use to find better routes that take me closer to living a life of balance. We refined the ways that I work and the trade-offs that I may need to make to find this balance. By reinvigorating my morning silent time and building habits to note what is happening in my inner landscape I learned how to listen better to that what is within. The work we did solidified the narratives and metaphors for my life that stand in agreement with my truth. While this was just part of my journey, the time I took out each week for a session grounded me and brought renewed focus. I am really grateful for the work that we did together and would definitely recommend his services.
Pieter Holtzhausen
Frequently Asked Questions
What would my integral coaching journey look like?
Once you have agreed to start your coaching journey, we would enter into a series of coaching sessions starting with Session 1. Sessions can range between one (1) to eight (8) or twelve (12) sessions depending on what we have agreed. In each session we will review the work done by you, the client, and how this is helping you, the client, to reach your desired outcomes. Importantly you will confirm how the coaching programme fits into your life as well as what may prevent you from taking the required steps.
Most importantly in doing the work you the client determines who will support you in your coaching programme besides the coach. i.e. a work colleague, or a spouse or a friend.
Is coaching counselling or therapy?
At the outset it is important to know that Life Coaching is not:
• Advice, Mentoring, Therapy, Counseling
• Medical diagnosis, intervention or treatment; or
• Intended to replace individual medical or psychological care in any way.
What coaching can be described as is a purposeful conversation that helps a client build a goal oriented and future focused life that is a best fit for their way of being.
Sometimes the difficulties that you are experiencing whether at work, in your business or in your relationships may be extreme anxiety and stress and the coach may find that he or she is not fully trained to help. Where a coach realises this he or she may recommend that you seek trained professional help such as a therapist.
How can coaching help me?
Coaching can help you clarify goals and identify manageable steps to achieving them. It can help you understand ways you may be blocking yourself and provide you with strategies you can implement to overcome blocks to your success. It is particularly helpful when you are highly motivated and keen to take on tasks outside of the coaching sessions.
Coaching can help you in areas such as:
• Self Awareness discovering why you act in the way you do.
• What beliefs you have about yourself that may be preventing you from taking certain actions
• What are the possibilities that arise in conversation and what your options really are.
• How you can Self Correct and go about pursuing the possibilities which you find are right for you.
• How you can Self Generate and remain motivated in pursuing goals.
How long will I need to work with a coach?
The number of sessions you may need varies, depending on where you are and what you want to achieve. Some clients with one or two specific issues, may be able to achieve their goals in as little as six to twelve sessions. Other clients may wish to work with a coach on a range of issues and this can exceed twelve sessions, depending on the outcome you are seeking.
A good coach will aim to reduce your dependency on them as soon as possible.
As you find yourself becoming more resourceful and dealing more effectively with new situations as they arise, you will know best when you are ready to end.
What feedback will the coach provide?
After the free introductory session and in the first formal session the coach will spend time unpacking your life story and what brought you to coaching. Thereafter in the second (2) session the coach will summarise what he or she has heard the client say and explore the clients options and POSSIBILITIES be it in response to where the client finds themselves in:
1. work,
2. relationships,
3. resources at your disposal,
4. a new role the client wants to step into,
5. possible healthy lifestyle choices,
6. stressful situations,
7. spiritual matters, or;
8. in any other matter that may be important to the client.
Ultimately to help the client reach their desired OUTCOMES.
During these sessions one (1) and two (2) the coach may also begin inviting the client into some preparatory work.
Are our conversations confidential?
A CONFIDENTIALITY AND USE OF INFORMATION FORM is provided to the client and signed by the coach and client before formal sessions begin
Client confidentiality and high ethical standards are important prerequisites to any coaching relationship which gains access to confidential information and material of an individual, their lives and the organizations that they have worked for and continue to work for. The coach therefore signs the CONFIDENTIALITY AND USE OF INFORMATION FORM covering the Code of Ethics which is the Code subscribed to by all members of the Centre for Coaching UCT courses, New Ventures West and the International Coach Federation and is in place to protect the safety and well-being of clients as well as the integrity of the profession. See Confidentiality and written agreement.
What type of work will the coach invite the coachee to do?
The coach during the agreed coaching sessions will provide Practices, Self observations, Remembering’s and Exercises to be completed which in turn will assist the person being coached on their development journey.
Practices are:
Actions or activities you will undertake during the coaching sessions and which you will do repetitively to build a capability or competence.
Self Observations are:
An activity that will allow you with curiosity and without being judgmental towards yourself notice your patterns of doing, saying or thinking something before, during or after you act or react to increase your awareness of self.
Self -Remembering:
A tool to allow you to remind yourself what you are living into now and not what you have done before. What goals and aspirations you are striving for.
Exercises:
Work that you will do once to generate insights, new possibilities and learning.
What does a coach aim for in a coaching session?
The coach will have the objective of aiming for:
1. A purposeful conversation that inspires you to create your best life.
2. A mindset of a short-term personal development intervention meaning about six (6) to twelve (12) coaching session or more when needed, covering:
a. A series of one-on-one future orientated discussions.
b. A facilitative rather than a directive form of development.
c. A focus on action and change.
d. A means to develop yourself and social awareness and assists with self-regulation.
Introducing
The Integrated Entrepreneur
A guide for entrepreneurs to work on themselves to better build a business that aligns with their purpose.
Written by Garth Gibson, this book is available for purchase on Amazon.